Home isn’t always a place—it’s where the heart feels settled. And for me, home isn’t a single location I can walk to. It’s spread across oceans and continents, between the moments I share with my children and the life I build with Huan.
As a father living apart from my kids, every visit with them is precious. I cherish our time together, but the uncertainty of when I’ll see them next weighs heavily on me.
In Taiwan, I have love and partnership with Huan. Across the world, in the Northeastern US, are my sons—where I also belong.
It’s a heart split between two homes, a reality many modern parents navigate.
Reimagining Togetherness ✈️📅
I’ve realized that trying to make frequent short trips to see my kids is neither financially sustainable nor emotionally fulfilling. Instead of spreading myself thin with multiple visits, what if I committed to one grand adventure every summer? A time dedicated entirely to them—no work distractions, no rushed schedules. Just presence, connection, and exploration, wherever we decide to be.
And throughout the year? Meaningful weekly phone calls, where we dive into shared passions—library books, video games, and the little things that make up our lives. It’s not the same as being there in person, but it strengthens our bond.
Letting Go of What I Can’t Control 🌊🔗
Yet, even with the best intentions, there’s always the fear of the unknown. Life can shift plans, making even the most carefully thought-out arrangements uncertain. I can’t predict the future, but I can choose where to focus my energy.
Rather than hoping for a perfect scenario, I anchor myself on what I can do now: being a consistent presence in my kids’ lives, even from a distance.
A weekly call about library books and Battle Cats may not seem like much, but it’s a bridge. A tether. A reminder that I’m always here.
A Question for You 🤔💬
Life often demands we find new ways to stay connected with the people who matter most. Have you ever had to redefine what “being present” means in your relationships? What creative ways have you found to maintain deep connections despite physical distance?
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