Lately, I’ve been asking myself: Is it youth or aging that sharpens my awareness of mistakes? I catch myself trusting assumptions instead of verifying facts. It’s humbling to realize how often I believe I know something, only to be proven wrong.
But perhaps mistakes themselves aren’t the problem—how we react to them shapes our growth.
At the core of many mistakes lies a common misconception: infallibility. Whether I ignore details or rush through decisions, I’ve noticed my errors often stem from a quiet, stubborn belief that I won’t get things wrong.
But mistakes are inevitable. There’s no external blame to give—only an opportunity to take responsibility. That’s where real work begins: holding myself accountable without self-criticism.
Here’s what I’ve learned. I’ve generously given my attention, care, and kindness to others, yet I’ve been slow to offer that same kindness to myself.
There’s a tendency to focus outward while neglecting our inner needs. I’ve been unequal in my kindness, and it’s time to balance that.
And then there’s this beautiful word: “enjoy.”
It flows effortlessly when spoken or written, reminding me to slow down and savor life’s simple pleasures.
What if I allowed myself to enjoy moments of self-kindness? What if accountability didn’t have to feel like a burden but could instead be a joyful act of self-compassion?
Writing this reflection was an enjoyable experience in itself. It reminded me that growth doesn’t mean avoiding mistakes but embracing them gracefully.
It’s about showing ourselves the same understanding we so easily offer others.
A Thought to Reflect On:
When you reflect on your mistakes, do you offer yourself kindness—or judgment? How can you make space to enjoy moments of self-growth?
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